{"product_id":"2940014887182","title":"How to Save Your Relationship","description":"Even the happiest relationships go through troubled periods. Life is so full of change and uncertainties and these can certainly put relationships to the test.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis guide aims to help people who are facing difficulties within their relationship and need help with how to get things back on track.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYou may be considering if you even want to stay in the relationship at all. This booklet will help you consider your options and think everything through before walking away.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eSome of the ideas and techniques may even help you with other relationships in your life that you may have difficulties with – perhaps with a friend, parent, sibling or other relative.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eDo you both want to save it?\u003cbr\u003eThe fact that you are reading this booklet means that you care enough to get help with\u003cbr\u003eyour relationship problems. However, a relationship takes more than one person to\u003cbr\u003emake it work. Both parties need to take responsibility for the relationship and both\u003cbr\u003eneed to also want to rebuild and save it.\u003cbr\u003eWhat’s your problem?\u003cbr\u003eThere are a million and one reasons why relationships go through difficulties. There\u003cbr\u003emay be external factors that have put pressures and stresses on your relationship –\u003cbr\u003esuch as problems at work, a new baby, money, difficulties with other family members,\u003cbr\u003eetc. Infidelity could be another reason. There may not have been one incident in\u003cbr\u003eitself, but a gradual build up of resentment and bitterness over the years caused by\u003cbr\u003esmaller disagreements that have taken their toll on the relationship. The little things\u003cbr\u003ethat you always saw as ‘cute’ and ‘adorable’ when you first got together now might\u003cbr\u003egrate on you intensely.\u003cbr\u003eIt is interesting to note that traditionally infidelity has been the number one reason\u003cbr\u003ecited in divorce cases. However according to a 2011 study by accountancy firm Grant\u003cbr\u003eThornton in the UK, ‘growing apart’ and ‘falling out of love’ are now the most\u003cbr\u003ecommon reasons cited for divorce.\u003cbr\u003eIt is important to take some time to really identify what the issues or problems are in\u003cbr\u003eyour relationship. It is not a blame game, it is about being totally honest and both\u003cbr\u003eparties accepting responsibility on both sides. This can be a really difficult thing to\u003cbr\u003edo. Emotions may be charged and some things can be very difficult or painful to\u003cbr\u003econsider and indeed talk about. It is very much achievable to talk through these\u003cbr\u003eissues as a couple, but you may find that you need some professional help in coming\u003cbr\u003eto terms with these issues and need additional support with moving things forward.\u003cbr\u003eSometimes talking to someone impartial whom neither of you know can really help\u003cbr\u003eget some clarity in your relationship. Details of further help and support available are\u003cbr\u003edetailed at the end of this booklet.\u003cbr\u003eUnrealistic expectations of your relationship?\u003cbr\u003eSo you’ve been together for quite some time. When you first got together, things\u003cbr\u003ewere so exciting and your partner paid you lots of attention and showered you with\u003cbr\u003egifts and love and affection. Things are not the same anymore. In fact, you can’t help\u003cbr\u003ebut look around at others…couples walking down the street hand in hand, friends you\u003cbr\u003eknow gushing about their other half, and telling you what a great relationship they\u003cbr\u003ehave and have sex 3 times daily, happily ever after stories on film and tv….\u003cbr\u003eStop!!\u003cbr\u003eEveryone feels like this from time to time in a relationship. It really is quite normal.\u003cbr\u003eThings are not going to be the same as when you first got together. In fact, things\u003cbr\u003ecould be much better. That first flutter of giddy love and excitement does not and\u003cbr\u003ecannot last. What you have could be so much more than that. Excitement does not\u003cbr\u003ehave to go out of the window, but your relationship grows into something else.\u003cbr\u003eSomething more. A deeper and greater understanding, respect and love for one\u003cbr\u003eanother.\u003cbr\u003eEveryone’s relationships are completely different. It is after all two different people\u003cbr\u003ewith two different personalities. We all compliment each other in different ways and\u003cbr\u003ewhat works for one relationship may not work for another. Because we are all\u003cbr\u003edifferent. Take with a pinch of salt what others around you appear to be doing in\u003cbr\u003etheir relationship. Noone really ever knows what goes on inside someone elses\u003cbr\u003erelationship behind closed doors. Therefore it would be ridiculous to think that\u003cbr\u003esomeone elses relationship is without problems and issues themselves and are better\u003cbr\u003ethan your own.\u003cbr\u003eIf you hear from a friend that they are having intercourse with their partner 3 times a\u003cbr\u003eweek and you are having sexual intercourse once every month, or every few months,\u003cbr\u003eor even once a year, this does not matter. There is no ‘normal’ frequency for how\u003cbr\u003eoften couples have sex...","brand":"Laiftllc.com","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47069495394544,"sku":"2940014887182","price":0.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0737\/7593\/9824\/files\/2940014887182_p0.jpg?v=1763616615","url":"https:\/\/shop-qa.barnesandnoble.com\/products\/2940014887182","provider":"Barnes \u0026 Noble (DEV)","version":"1.0","type":"link"}