{"product_id":"2940045705271","title":"I Cheated:Affair Recovery Advice For When You Have Been Unfaithful","description":"\u003cp\u003eIf you cheated in your relationship, this book could be the best gift you've ever given yourself…and your hurting partner. Infidelity doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship, if you can learn to understand why you cheated in the first place and how to keep it from happening again. Using the affair recovery strategy offered in \"I Cheated\", you and your partner can move from trauma to empathy, recovering the friendship and passion that brought you together in the first place.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eClinical Psychologist and Affair Recovery Specialist, Dr. Savannah Ellis looks at the myths of infidelity and the mistakes couples make post-affair, then provides exercises and templates so that you and your partner can become proactive in understanding and rebooting your relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe help offered to struggling couples in this book is based on the author's two decades of experience researching infidelity and counseling thousands of couples, feedback from couples coaches she has trained, the latest scientific findings in neurobiology, and research from other leaders in the field of infidelity and affair recovery.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you have cheated on your spouse or have thought about it, you need to read this book first.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eExpanded Contents:\u003cbr\u003eCONTENTS\u003cbr\u003ePREFACE\u003cbr\u003eINTRODUCTION\u003cbr\u003eHousekeeping\u003cbr\u003eRECOVERY MYTHS AND MISTAKES\u003cbr\u003eMyths\u003cbr\u003eMistakes\u003cbr\u003eThe 20 Most Common Mistakes:\u003cbr\u003eCLASSIFYING YOUR AFFAIR TYPE\u003cbr\u003eType 1: Accidental Affair\u003cbr\u003eType 2: Avoidance Affair Type\u003cbr\u003eType 3: Philanderer Affair\u003cbr\u003eType 4: Entitlement Affair\u003cbr\u003eType 5: Split Self Affair\u003cbr\u003eType 6: Exit Affair\u003cbr\u003eType 7: Sexual Addiction Affair\u003cbr\u003eEmotional affairs\u003cbr\u003eFinancial Infidelity\u003cbr\u003eAffair Type Quiz\u003cbr\u003eRelationship Recovery Advice\u003cbr\u003eThe Conflict Avoidance Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Intimacy Avoidance Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Sexual Addiction Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Split-Self Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Exit Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Entitlement Affair\u003cbr\u003eThe Philanderer\u003cbr\u003eThe Accidental Affair\u003cbr\u003eUNDERSTANDING YOUR PARTNER\u003cbr\u003eStages Of Recovery From The Trauma Of Infidelity\u003cbr\u003eHow To Get Closer To Your Partner\u003cbr\u003eHandling Your Partner’s Rejection\u003cbr\u003eMy Partner\u003cbr\u003eHandling Your Partner’s Anger\u003cbr\u003eUNDERSTANDING YOURSELF\u003cbr\u003eAttachment Styles\u003cbr\u003eHow do you connect?\u003cbr\u003eThe Secure Connector\u003cbr\u003eThe Anxious Connector\u003cbr\u003eThe Avoidant\u003cbr\u003eThe Fearful Connector\u003cbr\u003eMy Attachment Style\u003cbr\u003eCommon Coping Styles and Patterns\u003cbr\u003eCoping Style\u003cbr\u003eLove or Addiction\u003cbr\u003eFriendship\u003cbr\u003eTHE APOLOGY\u003cbr\u003ePart A\u003cbr\u003eTaking Responsibility For Your Actions\u003cbr\u003eExplain The ‘Whys’\u003cbr\u003eBe honest.\u003cbr\u003ePartners May Ask For Details\u003cbr\u003eThe Apology Letter\u003cbr\u003eElements To An Apology Letter\u003cbr\u003ePart B\u003cbr\u003eRELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION\u003cbr\u003eRules For Fair Fighting\u003cbr\u003eAction:\u003cbr\u003eHow to Handle Conflict Effectively\u003cbr\u003eCommunication Patterns Between Couples\u003cbr\u003eREBOOTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP\u003cbr\u003eThe Love Bank\u003cbr\u003eLove Busters\u003cbr\u003eQuestionnaire\u003cbr\u003eEmotional Needs\u003cbr\u003eRanking of Your Emotional Needs\u003cbr\u003eAction:\u003cbr\u003eSEX AND INTIMACY\u003cbr\u003eTypes of Intimacy\u003cbr\u003eRebooting Your Sex Life – Choose a Plan\u003cbr\u003ePLAN A – You Do Not Want Sex\u003cbr\u003ePLAN B – For Couples Desiring Sex\u003cbr\u003eForeplay Map Exercises\u003cbr\u003eIntimacy Tips\u003cbr\u003eSex Addiction?\u003cbr\u003eRESTORING TRUST\u003cbr\u003eThe Five Forms Of Trust In A Relationship\u003cbr\u003eCreating Transparency\u003cbr\u003eBuilding Transparency Through Confessions\u003cbr\u003eRENEW YOUR RELATIONSHIP CONTRACT\u003cbr\u003ePreparing to Write Your Relationship Contract\u003cbr\u003eSample Contract Guide\u003cbr\u003ePREVENTION\u003cbr\u003eSeven Facts You Need To Know About Infidelity\u003cbr\u003eWhat You Need To Know About Love\u003cbr\u003eSeven Tips for Preventing Infidelity\u003cbr\u003eCommitment\u003cbr\u003eHow to Stay Committed in Your Relationship\u003cbr\u003eCONCLUSION\u003cbr\u003eWhat Makes a Great Relationship?\u003cbr\u003eAPPENDIX\u003cbr\u003eProtecting Your Children from the Fallout\u003cbr\u003eRESOURCES\u003cbr\u003eInfidelity, Addiction, and the Internet\u003cbr\u003eLove and Intimacy\u003cbr\u003eSex\u003cbr\u003eDivorce\u003cbr\u003eUnderstanding Yourself\u003cbr\u003eWeb Sites\u003cbr\u003eSupport Groups\u003cbr\u003eReferences\u003cbr\u003eABOUT THE AUTHOR\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Savannah Ellis","offers":[{"title":"Default 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