{"product_id":"9780062435781","title":"Baggage: Tales from a Fully Packed Life","description":"\u003cstrong\u003e\"An intimate look at the making of a man, an actor, an advocate—and most importantly—a happy human being. A wonderful book that is funny, honest, fearless, and generous in its vulnerability.\" \u003c\/strong\u003e—\u003cstrong\u003eDouglas Stuart, Booker Prize-winning author of \u003cem\u003eShuggie Bain\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eThere is absolutely no logical reason why I am here. The life trajectory my nationality and class and circumstances portended for me was not even remotely close to the one I now navigate. But logic is a science and living is an art.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe release I felt in writing my first memoir, \u003cem\u003eNot My Father’s Son\u003c\/em\u003e, was matched only by how my speaking out empowered so many to engage with their own trauma. I was reminded of the power of my words and the absolute duty of authenticity.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut…\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eNo one ever fully recovers from their past. There is no cure for it. You just learn to manage and prioritize it. I believe the second you feel you have triumphed or overcome something – an abuse, an injury to the body or the mind, an addiction, a character flaw, a habit, a person – you have merely decided to stop being vigilant and embraced denial as your modus operandi. And that is what this book is about, and for: to remind you not to buy in to the Hollywood ending.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIronically maybe, much of \u003cem\u003eBaggage\u003c\/em\u003e chronicles my life in Hollywood and how, since I recovered from a nervous breakdown at 28, work has repeatedly whisked me away from personal calamities to sets and stages around the world. It is also about marriage(s): starting with the break-up of my first (to a woman) and ending with the ascension to my second (to a man) with many kissed toads in between! But in everything, each failed relationship or encounter with a legend (Liza! X Men! Gore Vidal! Kubrick! Spice Girls!), in every bad decision or moment of sensual joy I have endeavored to show what I have learned and how I’ve become who I am today: a happy, flawed, vulnerable, fearless middle-aged man, with a \u003cem\u003elot\u003c\/em\u003e of baggage.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"HarperCollins","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47011192832240,"sku":"9780062435781","price":27.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0737\/7593\/9824\/files\/9780062435781_p0.jpg?v=1763775298","url":"https:\/\/shop-qa.barnesandnoble.com\/products\/9780062435781","provider":"Barnes \u0026 Noble (DEV)","version":"1.0","type":"link"}