{"product_id":"9780987719218","title":"Find Your Perfect Partner","description":"You've likely realized that the screwy relationships you have been in were the direct result of \u003cb\u003enot thinking\u003c\/b\u003e about how to create an excellent one. \u003cp\u003ePretending the important, life-altering decision to relate is \"a matter of the heart\" is not only stupid, it doesn't work!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMany moons ago, the author made a clear decision about his \"next\" relationship. He decided that his brain needed to be involved in the process.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe came up with a strategy for finding the person he wanted - \u003cem\u003eThe List of 50. \u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by a therapist with over 30 years of experience, this book gives you the tools you need to actually think through what kind of person you want to be with.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHis clients have tested this process for the last 30 years, and now it's available to you! \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHere's a quote from a client:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"When I showed my \u003cem\u003eList of 50\u003c\/em\u003e to one friend he said, \"Do you have a short list that us mere mortals could aspire to?\" My answer was, \"I had a short list and it got me my ex-husband. I'm being more particular now.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eFind Your Perfect Partner\u003c\/b\u003e is a guide to figuring out the whole attraction \/ dating \/ relationship thing. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou'll discover:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e~ reasons for failed relationships and the high divorce rate\u003cbr\u003e~ how hormones get in the way\u003cbr\u003e~ how past relationships are great guides to getting the next one right\u003cbr\u003e~ why you need to think about what works in your successful friendships\u003cbr\u003e~ which traits must be a match between you and your perfect partner\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book examines what doesn't work, and helps you to map out what's been missing from past relationships. It gives you an easy to follow strategy for re-setting your mental filters, so that the next person you meet is a much better fit.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou'll have a better sense of why compatibility is so important, and have a time tested method for both opening your eyes to new possibilities, and for finding your perfect partner.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFollow along with the text, work through the exercises, and put the book's insights into practice. You'll be amazed with the results.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOne more quote!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"My list has been an active part of my relationship building since I drafted it. I have modified the list several times, based on how relationships worked out. It was also interesting to note, how few elements of my list my ex-wife matched, similar to what you said about your first marriage.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI feel that using the process you recommend does improve the quality of the choices you make. Of course, building the other relating skills will complement this as well.\"\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"The Phoenix Centre Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":49893913821424,"sku":"9780987719218","price":20.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"url":"https:\/\/shop-qa.barnesandnoble.com\/products\/9780987719218","provider":"Barnes \u0026 Noble (DEV)","version":"1.0","type":"link"}