{"product_id":"9780991918102","title":"Can I Change It?: 3 Step Program","description":"Is it possible we spend as much as 90% of our day focused on things we can't change?\u003cp\u003eHow much time to we spend trying to change or control other people while our lives remain in complete shambles?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow much of our day is spent living in anger, fear and resentment towards others?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if we made a decision to completely let go of the past and make today the first day of the rest of our lives?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if today we made a decision to only focus on things we can change?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost of us have come to realize life is short, life is difficult, and we can't take anything with us when we go.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost of us have come to realize we can't change the past, we can't guarantee the future, and today is all that we have.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost of us have come to realize we've all made mistakes and today is the first day of the rest of our lives.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAgnostics and atheists alike have come to realize they can throw the dice but certainly don't determine how they land.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is about letting go of the past, focusing on things we can change and serving by way of our gifts.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is a testimonial of what our lives were like before we let go and the changes that took place overnight the moment we did.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWHAT DID WE LEARN FROM THIS BOOK?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* We can't change the past\u003cbr\u003e* We can't guarantee the future\u003cbr\u003e* Today is the first day of the rest of our lives\u003cbr\u003e* Life is short\u003cbr\u003e* Life is difficult\u003cbr\u003e* Can't take anything with us when we go\u003cbr\u003e* Must let go of things we can't change\u003cbr\u003e* Must focus on things we can change\u003cbr\u003e* Serving others is the cure (addiction, depression, codependency, entitlement)\u003cbr\u003e* We roll the dice but don't determine how they land\u003cbr\u003e* We're powerless over our birth, our death and most things in between\u003cbr\u003e* When it comes to God...further diligence is necessary\u003cbr\u003e* Evidence of an intelligent designer surrounds us\u003cbr\u003e* We possess proprietary gifts\u003cbr\u003e* We must live and serve by way of these gifts\u003cbr\u003e* Acceptance is key to a happy life\u003cbr\u003e* Self-honesty leads to humility - humility leads to freedom\u003cbr\u003e* Smashing ego and deflation is critical (our way didn't work)\u003cbr\u003e* Must re-open our eyes, our hearts and our minds\u003cbr\u003e* When our hearts and minds connect we experience peace\u003cbr\u003e* When we're grateful we're rich\u003cbr\u003e* Today we focus on the top 10% of every situation not the bottom 10%\u003cbr\u003e* Ego is pride in forward...depression is pride in reverse\u003cbr\u003e* Depression is a luxury (have to have it good to know how bad we have it)\u003cbr\u003e* Good and bad dog exist in us all (the one we feed is the one that grows)\u003cbr\u003e* Today we've learned to love our enemies from afar\u003cbr\u003e* Our enemies are often our greatest teachers\u003cbr\u003e* Giving to get isn't giving\u003cbr\u003e* Routine is key to a happy and productive life\u003cbr\u003e* Love with conditions is control\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd much much more...\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Carey Porcher","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50076048031984,"sku":"9780991918102","price":19.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0737\/7593\/9824\/files\/9780991918102_p0.jpg?v=1784739928","url":"https:\/\/shop-qa.barnesandnoble.com\/products\/9780991918102","provider":"Barnes \u0026 Noble (DEV)","version":"1.0","type":"link"}