{"product_id":"9781631927157","title":"A History of a Pedophile's Wife: Memoir of a Canadian Teacher and Writer","description":"\"How could a mother not know?\" This is a question often asked about families where incest has occurred, and Eleanor Cowan's gripping memoir, A History of a Pedophile's Wife, steps up with answers that are courageous and heartbreaking. Cowan grew up in Quebec in the 1950s, in a large Roman Catholic family with a lethal mix of violence, addiction, and toxic pedagogy. Cowan details the dance of a survivor moving into adulthood: one step forward towards freedom, two steps back into conditioning, until a tipping point of consciousness is reached. As her memoir makes clear, that tipping point is not just a critical mass of abuse or even a touchstone of personal growth. It requires an enlarged and feminist context, permission to know the unknowable, and language to name the unspeakable. Cowan's book is a primer in compassion, especially for those of us who were abused as children and left to struggle with legacies of distrust and rage towards our mothers. It's a vivid indictment of a mother-blaming culture that protects the very institutions that perpetuate child abuse.","brand":"BookBaby","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47057728340208,"sku":"9781631927157","price":13.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0737\/7593\/9824\/files\/9781631927157_p0.jpg?v=1763759166","url":"https:\/\/shop-qa.barnesandnoble.com\/products\/9781631927157","provider":"Barnes \u0026 Noble (DEV)","version":"1.0","type":"link"}