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How To Avoid Divorce Or What To Do After
How To Avoid Divorce Or What To Do After
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1 Admit your marriage is not perfect. Admit it to yourself. Admit it to your spouse. There is no shame in saying this. All couples experience problems in their marriage to one degree or another.
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Decide you are going to do what it takes to fix it.
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Sometimes, depending on the circumstances and situations, your partner may not be as willing as you. Be patient and loving. Do not give up. If your spouse is distant or not willing, ask if you can share your feelings with them. Then do it--verbally or in writing--but share them from your heart.
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Once you have admitted your marriage is struggling, and you are willing to do what it takes to make things right, schedule a time to sit down together. If you have kids, send them to grandma's or find a babysitter and go to a place where you can be alone. If you have a cell phone, turn it off!
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The pen is mightier than the sword, but the mouth can slay them all. During this scheduled "alone time," do something you have not done together in a really long time, or something you used to do all the time. Hold hands! Put on some soft music and hold hands and gather your thoughts--for as long as it takes. Then take a pen and paper and make three columns. In the first column, write down the concerns you have for your marriage. In the second, write down your own short-comings, or how you contribute to those concerns. In the third, write down the things your spouse does that hurt or contribute to these problems.
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1 Admit your marriage is not perfect. Admit it to yourself. Admit it to your spouse. There is no shame in saying this. All couples experience problems in their marriage to one degree or another.
2
Decide you are going to do what it takes to fix it.
3.
Sometimes, depending on the circumstances and situations, your partner may not be as willing as you. Be patient and loving. Do not give up. If your spouse is distant or not willing, ask if you can share your feelings with them. Then do it--verbally or in writing--but share them from your heart.
4
Once you have admitted your marriage is struggling, and you are willing to do what it takes to make things right, schedule a time to sit down together. If you have kids, send them to grandma's or find a babysitter and go to a place where you can be alone. If you have a cell phone, turn it off!
5
The pen is mightier than the sword, but the mouth can slay them all. During this scheduled "alone time," do something you have not done together in a really long time, or something you used to do all the time. Hold hands! Put on some soft music and hold hands and gather your thoughts--for as long as it takes. Then take a pen and paper and make three columns. In the first column, write down the concerns you have for your marriage. In the second, write down your own short-comings, or how you contribute to those concerns. In the third, write down the things your spouse does that hurt or contribute to these problems.
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