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What Does Success Truly Mean
What Does Success Truly Mean
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Determining What Success Really Means Can Have Amazing Benefits For Your Life And Business! Learn About The True Definition Of Success- And Gain Power By Having A Different Look At Wealth To Create Amazing Results!
If you are starting to set your goals and resolutions for a new phase in your life – if you’re looking for something and trying to define what you call success then you are in the right place.
However the unusual thing is: For several people, the definition of success banks on the failure of others.
Is this true for you? Then please continue on as you need to discover that wealth and success can be measured in other things besides money.
What Does Success Truly Mean
A Different Look At Wealth
Chapter 1:
Judging Others
Synopsis
Constantly judging others and doing comparisons will actually sabotage your success and wealth.
Constantly Comparing and Judging?
The behavior of judgment is a behavior of pride. It calls for looking to our own stock of knowledge, assembling a couple of facts, figures or fantasies, and mustering up some kind of answer or solution to a given problem or state of affairs. Only too often it's the incorrect solution or answer, and because of pride, we reject correcting course.
Judging other people is a behavior of massive pride - tremendous pride, colossal pride, galling, amazing, grotesque pride. This should be emphasized. When you render judgment on some other person, you've taken upon yourself an amazing responsibility for arriving at the right judgment. Because, after all, your judgment isn't essential.
All things, large and little, invite your judgment. The status of the weather, political affairs, the taste of your food, a TV show - at every minute of the day, something or other is asking for your judgment of it. And so often, and so willingly, you deliver it, without being cognizant of the results, without taking care of the responsibilities implicated.
You judge, and then to make affairs worse, you trust in your judgment. You've viewed the evidence, you've arrived at a judgment - it must be correct! There could not possibly be any other determination to arrive at but the one you’ve chosen could there?
What you do not see, do not comprehend, is that your judgment can lead to hurt - your own hurt. It doesn't touch the individual judged; he or she is unhampered by you and your views and your judgments. You can't alter their behavior by even a hair's-breadth by your judgment.
Funny though that this is how a lot of minds operate: perpetually comparing and judging others. How are they doing? Are they prettier, are their biceps larger, are they richer, and is their automobile larger?
This mentality is a bottomless pit – we can never get satisfaction in it. Our net worth grows by $20,000; it may make us ecstatic. But before long, we see Joe from across the street – his automobile is still larger! He has what we have, However he got it all at a younger age! So we resume our conflict. It never stops; we proceed from thousandaire to millionaire; and then soon after, we believe that’s not adequate; now we want to be a billionaire.
When I started in business years ago, I was perpetually comparing myself to other people – and it made me really upset. My techniques were better than the other novices, and that made me feel fine. But they had more team members than I did, and I resented that. My website was better, I wrote better, and that made me proud. But I had a lot of fear to get over, and I despised it when I saw the other people fearlessly recruit.
This ceaseless comparison is the cause of much of our disquiet. But if you look closely, if you're honest, there’s a different component involved. This mentality hinges upon the subduing of others. For us to be superior, to be considered a success, other people have to go wrong, to be inferior.
I'm not saying that we shouldn’t aspire to goals, or reach for excellence in our chosen field. I don’t believe it’s even incorrect to want to be rich. But there’s a pernicious difference in aspiring to be good and aspiring to be better than other people; aspiring to be rich and aspiring to be richer than other people.
Chapter 2:
Stop Wasting Energy
Synopsis
Your energy and thoughts are much better spent on other things than comparing and judging for your personal wealth.
Use Your Thoughts Better
Does your definition of success and wealth include the failure of those around you? Desiring a business that brings in money is really different from
If you are starting to set your goals and resolutions for a new phase in your life – if you’re looking for something and trying to define what you call success then you are in the right place.
However the unusual thing is: For several people, the definition of success banks on the failure of others.
Is this true for you? Then please continue on as you need to discover that wealth and success can be measured in other things besides money.
What Does Success Truly Mean
A Different Look At Wealth
Chapter 1:
Judging Others
Synopsis
Constantly judging others and doing comparisons will actually sabotage your success and wealth.
Constantly Comparing and Judging?
The behavior of judgment is a behavior of pride. It calls for looking to our own stock of knowledge, assembling a couple of facts, figures or fantasies, and mustering up some kind of answer or solution to a given problem or state of affairs. Only too often it's the incorrect solution or answer, and because of pride, we reject correcting course.
Judging other people is a behavior of massive pride - tremendous pride, colossal pride, galling, amazing, grotesque pride. This should be emphasized. When you render judgment on some other person, you've taken upon yourself an amazing responsibility for arriving at the right judgment. Because, after all, your judgment isn't essential.
All things, large and little, invite your judgment. The status of the weather, political affairs, the taste of your food, a TV show - at every minute of the day, something or other is asking for your judgment of it. And so often, and so willingly, you deliver it, without being cognizant of the results, without taking care of the responsibilities implicated.
You judge, and then to make affairs worse, you trust in your judgment. You've viewed the evidence, you've arrived at a judgment - it must be correct! There could not possibly be any other determination to arrive at but the one you’ve chosen could there?
What you do not see, do not comprehend, is that your judgment can lead to hurt - your own hurt. It doesn't touch the individual judged; he or she is unhampered by you and your views and your judgments. You can't alter their behavior by even a hair's-breadth by your judgment.
Funny though that this is how a lot of minds operate: perpetually comparing and judging others. How are they doing? Are they prettier, are their biceps larger, are they richer, and is their automobile larger?
This mentality is a bottomless pit – we can never get satisfaction in it. Our net worth grows by $20,000; it may make us ecstatic. But before long, we see Joe from across the street – his automobile is still larger! He has what we have, However he got it all at a younger age! So we resume our conflict. It never stops; we proceed from thousandaire to millionaire; and then soon after, we believe that’s not adequate; now we want to be a billionaire.
When I started in business years ago, I was perpetually comparing myself to other people – and it made me really upset. My techniques were better than the other novices, and that made me feel fine. But they had more team members than I did, and I resented that. My website was better, I wrote better, and that made me proud. But I had a lot of fear to get over, and I despised it when I saw the other people fearlessly recruit.
This ceaseless comparison is the cause of much of our disquiet. But if you look closely, if you're honest, there’s a different component involved. This mentality hinges upon the subduing of others. For us to be superior, to be considered a success, other people have to go wrong, to be inferior.
I'm not saying that we shouldn’t aspire to goals, or reach for excellence in our chosen field. I don’t believe it’s even incorrect to want to be rich. But there’s a pernicious difference in aspiring to be good and aspiring to be better than other people; aspiring to be rich and aspiring to be richer than other people.
Chapter 2:
Stop Wasting Energy
Synopsis
Your energy and thoughts are much better spent on other things than comparing and judging for your personal wealth.
Use Your Thoughts Better
Does your definition of success and wealth include the failure of those around you? Desiring a business that brings in money is really different from
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