Online Dating for Women

Nice Girls Do It, Too!
Sometimes in life, Mr. Right can be just that little bit elusive, so in today’s rapidly
changing, technology driven world, it is no wonder that more and more people are
looking for love online.
Single people of all ages, races, religions and both sexes do it. Short people, tall
people, thin people, obese people do it. People from every developed country in the
world do it. Nice girls do it, too.
The reasons people join online dating sites are as varied as the people who join but
mostly they join for three very good reasons: (1) Time (2) Money and (3) It works.
Time: You can go through hundreds of online profiles and look at hundreds of
pictures in the same length of time only one real world date takes and the screening is
already done for you. You can tell right away if a guy is only looking for casual
relationships or long term commitments. How many times have you worked 8 hours,
gone home and spent another hour getting ready to go out then gone to the local
hang-out for singles only to see the same old jerks, losers and drunks that are always
there?
Money: For the price of one evening out on the town you can enjoy an entire month
of meeting men from the safety of your own home computer ….do it in your
jammies or sweats and with a beauty facial working its magic.
It works. It really does work if you are willing to do the right things. Write a profile
that grabs attention, post recent pictures of yourself, be fun and interesting while
chatting with the men you meet on line, answering emails promptly and being on
time for a pre-arranged online meeting.
You always hear of people meeting their Mr. Right online and falling in love and
getting married. That could be you too!
The Advantages of Online Dating for Women
In the past, i.e. the 1990’s, online dating was a brand new idea. Unlike today, most
people did not own PC’s or even have access to the internet. Times have changed.
Online dating is not only IN the mainstream, it IS the mainstream.
There are many reasons for the phenomenal growth of online dating sites and the
number of people, men and women of all ages, races and religions who use them as
their primary source for meeting people and looking for “the one”.
If you don’t believe me, just ask your friends in the “real” world. If they are honest,
most of them will tell you they have or are using an online dating service.
Here are three good reasons why thousands of people sign up for dating services
everyday:
(1) You can be anonymous. You will never be required to give your real name,
address, email address, phone number or place of employment to another
online user. You, of course, may do so but only at your own discretion and
only when you feel completely safe. You are not required to post a picture of
yourself. Posting a picture, however, will get more responses to your profile.
So you can surf through the other members on the dating site you have joined
with complete anonymity.
(2) You have so many more choices online that you do in your brick and mortar
world. Before the world of online dating came of age, the choice of friends
and even of lifetime partners was limited to those we came in contact with
through college or work. No more…the world is your oyster. You can go
through hundreds…even thousands of profiles to find the right man for you.
(3) The “safety factor” is the biggest reason of all. An online dating service will
never reveal your personal information. You get to choose who has that
information and when they have it.
A Woman’s “Don’ts” of Online Dating
There are some things that women should never do while engaged in an online
relationship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any
further communications with him.
While chatting online or by email do not write your life story. His eyes will glaze
over and he will fall out of his chair. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for
details…then provide them slowly and only answer the questions he asks. For
instance: If he asks how many siblings you have, he is NOT asking for the details of
your interaction with them. He really just wants to know how many you have. Say
you have 2 (or whatever is true) and then ask how many he has. For every question
he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a longwinded
woman who just doesn’t know when to shut up or how to listen.
Never, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later.
Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height,
weight and a host of other things in their online