The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules

Comprehensive research for this ebook was taken from 267 BDSM and sexual technique webpages, as well as numerous sex and S & M journals.

Here are roughly 2 dozen categories of BDSM and role playing rules from decades of research in this sexually charged book. Each category has multiple rules listed for your viewing, analysis and adapting. Below are many of the rules in the spanking category:

Spankings

A normal, good quality spanking will leave a slave's bottom a nice shade of red. This is what a slave should expect, if not hope for. If necessary however, such a spanking should be worked up to.

a. Being spanked is a very important part of my relationship with Master, as well as therapeutic for me as a slave. I will beg Master to spank me often. I will have favorite implements to be spanked by so if Master allows me to pick an implement to be spanked by, I will be ready to bring it to him. When ordered to I will beg to be spanked and afterwards thank Master for taking the trouble of spanking me.

b. I will without hesitation take any position my Master orders me to should He wish to take me, spank me or otherwise play with me or punish me. I am never allowed to block my Master's spanks or try to get away from a position my Master has ordered me to be in unless there is an emergency or I am in harm's way. Should Master ever spank my hand because it was blocking a blow, I will be spanked much harder and longer and perhaps have my hands bound in front of me, if they are not already. I will also have the humiliation of knowing I was so disrespectful.

c. Whenever I and/or Master and I come back from being in the public, I am to ask for a "returning from the public spanking."

d. My pussy must be wet within 60 seconds into any spanking. No spanking will ever end until my pussy is wet.

e. If Master wishes he will train me to orgasm from being spanked. Most slaves can be trained to orgasm from being spanked and as a respectful slave I will learn to orgasm for my Master while being spanked. Within 90 seconds of being spanked, I will naturally start to orgasm (asking Master for permission to cum first of course). Also Master can instead order me to start my orgasm during the spanking at anytime 90 seconds or longer into the spanking. As always I will need permission to stop my orgasm.

For training me to cum from being spanked, Master will likely start by using a vibrator on me during the spanking and ordering me to start orgasming just as he starts the vibrator that's on my clitoris.

Master acknowledges that I may need up to 10 training sessions with a vibrator in this manner. After then, should I disrespect my Master by not cumming while being spanked, (assuming I was given permission to cum,) then I will be punished.

f. During a spanking I may never try to block the blows or try to leave the position He has put me in. When I'm being bound I will not resist, however when I am being bound I may always tell my Master that it hurts (if it hurts) so he can make any necessary changes.

g. Whenever I am to leave the house (apartment or where ever) for more than just quickly going to the car, or something quick of that nature, whether I'm also leaving with Master or not, I will ask my Master for a "going out in the public spanking." This is over and above any other spankings I may have recently received.

h. When alone with Master, unless he has told me to do otherwise, I am to ask every hour, at the beginning of the hour, to be spanked for "my hourly spanking," no matter whether I've been spanked recently or not. Master may not want to spank me but I'm required to ask roughly on the start of each hour anyway.