My First Time

When is the best time to lose my virginity?

I can't tell you how many times boys propositioned me in high school. My dates for homecoming and prom hoped I would let them mess around since I had agreed to go to those stupid dances with them. I did let them reach up under my shirts and feel around but that was as far as they were allowed. I wanted my first time to be amazing and I knew that fumbling around with some horny teenager was not the way a real woman should lose her virginity.

So, I waited until college. I wasn't in a hurry. For me, I wanted the first time to be mind-blowing. I wanted it to be the kind of night I would remember all my life. I also wanted it to be with someone I loved.

The boys in high school had been nice enough but I knew not one of them was someone I could fall for.

I was glad I waited.