The only way you are reading this, is if I am gone.

On September 12, 2010 Trent and Carrie Bolesky’s only son, TJ, was killed in a car accident. He was a sixteen year old passenger in the back seat and sat with his arm around his girlfriend, Lydia, possibly saving her life that night. Roy, Lydia’s brother and TJ’s best friend was driving them, responsibly to youth group that night. In a freak quick turn, the jeep was in the ditch and Tj was killed instantly. What happens to each of these families and those around them, is beyond humanity’s moral compass at its best. This is a wild, spiritual rollercoaster of the twist and turns that occured in the next several months. From finding a good-bye note from TJ to hearing from his friends how God whispered to TJ’s spirit of his early homecoming. This is a story of God’s grace, love and mercy following a life.