How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind

***How to Meditate Has Been Named One of Library Journal’s Best Books of 2013*** Pema Chodron is treasured around the world for her unique ability to transmit teachings and practices that bring peace, understanding, and compassion into our lives.   With How to Meditate, the American-born Tibetan nun presents her first book exploring in depth what she considers the essentials for a lifelong practice. When we look for a meditation teacher, we want someone who has an intimate knowledge of the path. That's why so many have turned to Pema Chödrön, whose gentle yet straightforward guidance has been a lifesaver for both first-time and experienced meditators. With How to Meditate, the American-born Tibetan Buddhist nun presents her first book that explores in-depth what she considers the essentials for an evolving practice that helps you live in a wholehearted way.   More and more people are beginning to recognize a profound inner longing for authenticity, connection, compassion, and aliveness. Meditation, Pema explains, gives us a golden key to address this yearning. This comprehensive guide shows readers how to honestly meet and openly relate with the mind to embrace the fullness of our experience as we discover:

•  The basics of meditation, from getting settled and the six points of posture to working with your breath and cultivating an attitude of unconditional friendliness
•  The Seven Delights-how moments of diffi culty can become doorways to awakening and love
•  Shamatha (or calm abiding), the art of stabilizing the mind to remain present with whatever arises
•  Thoughts and emotions as "sheer delight"-instead of obstacles-in meditation

  Here is in indispensable book from the meditation teacher who remains a first choice for students the world over.   “Pema is one of our most beloved and helpful teachers—practical, compassionate, and wise.  How to Meditate is a great way to take her teachings to heart and develop a meditation practice.” —Jack Kornfield, author of A Path with Heart and A Lamp in the Darkness   “This new book is a great compilation of meditation instruction which she has personal given to many of her students over the years.  These instructions have brought so much help to others that it has made her one of the most loved and revered Buddhist teacher in this modern world.  With a brilliant mind and an absolutely cheerful attitude toward life, she practices what she teaches.  She is a great support and friend to thousands of readers, and I am very sure that this book will help many in their everyday lives, as she makes this genuine attempt to reach us all.” —Dzigar Kongtrul Rinpoche    Excerpt   The mind is very wild.  The human experience is full of unpredictability and paradox, joys and sorrows, successes and failures.  We can’t escape any of these experiences in the vast terrain of our existence.  It is part of what makes life grand—and it is also why our minds take us on such a crazy ride.  If we can train ourselves through meditation to be more open and more accepting toward the wild arc of our experience, if we can lean into the difficulties of life and ride of our minds, we can become more settled and relaxed amid whatever life brings us. There are numerous ways to work with the mind.  One of the most effective ways is through the tool of sitting meditation.  Sitting meditation opens us to each and every moment of our life.  Each moment is totally unique and unknown.  Our mental world is seemingly predictable and graspable.  We believe that thinking through all the events and to-dos of our life will provide us with ground and security.  But it’s all a fantasy, and this very moment, free of conceptual overlay, is completely unique.  It is absolutely unknown.  We’ve never experienced this very moment before, and the next moment will not be the same as the one we are in now.  Meditation teaches us how to relate to life directly, so that we can truly experience the present moment, free from conceptual overlay.Table of Contents Part One:  The Technique of Meditation

1. Preparing for Practice and Making the Commitment
2. Stabilizing the Mind
3. The Six Points of Posture
4. Breath:  The Practice of Letting Go
5. Attitude:  Keep Coming Back
6. Unconditional Friendliness
7. You Are Your Own Meditation Instructor

Part Two:  Working With Thoughts

1. The Monkey Mind
2. The Three Levels of Discursive Thought
3. Thoughts as the Object of Meditation
4. Regard All Dharmas as Dreams

  Part Three:  Working With Emotions  

1. Becoming Intimate with Our Emotions
2. The Space within the Emotion
3. Emotions as the Object of Meditation
4. Getting Our Hands Dirty
5. Hold the Experience
6. Breaking with the Emotion
7. Drop the Story and Find the Feeling

  Part Four:  Working with Sense Perception  

1. The Sense Perceptions
2. The Interconnection of All Perceptions

  Part Five:  Opening Your Heart to Include Everything

1. Giving Up the Struggle
2. The Seven Delights
3. The Bearable Lightness of Being
4. Beliefs
5. Relaxing with Groundlessness
6. Create a Circle of Practitioners
7. Cultivate a Sense of Wonder
8. The Way of the Bodhisattva